DARVO: WHEN THEY MAKE YOU THE PROBLEM

DARVO: WHEN THEY MAKE YOU THE PROBLEM

Audio Version (09:04) You go into a conversation knowing exactly what you want to say. Something hasn’t been right. Someone’s behaviour has crossed a line. Or something just needs addressing. Then… within minutes… everything shifts. You find yourself explaining....
THE TOXIC SHAME BEHIND WORKPLACE BULLIES

THE TOXIC SHAME BEHIND WORKPLACE BULLIES

Audio Version (09:45) When people talk about workplace bullying, the focus is usually on behaviour. The shouting. The undermining. The passive-aggressive comments. The exclusion. The intimidation… and rightly so. Those behaviours are damaging and need to be addressed....
HOW TO SPOT A MASTER MANIPULATOR

HOW TO SPOT A MASTER MANIPULATOR

Audio Version (10:11) We’ve all worked with difficult people. The colleague who takes credit for your work. The manager who changes the goalposts. The person who somehow leaves you feeling confused, wrong-footed, or even guilty after a perfectly reasonable...
WHY PEOPLE BELITTLE OTHERS

WHY PEOPLE BELITTLE OTHERS

Audio Version (09:20) If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling small, dismissed, or subtly put down, you’re not imagining it. Belittling behaviour shows up more often than people realise. It is not always loud or aggressive. Sometimes it comes disguised...