THE TOXIC SHAME BEHIND WORKPLACE BULLIES

THE TOXIC SHAME BEHIND WORKPLACE BULLIES

Audio Version (09:45) When people talk about workplace bullying, the focus is usually on behaviour. The shouting. The undermining. The passive-aggressive comments. The exclusion. The intimidation… and rightly so. Those behaviours are damaging and need to be addressed....
HOW TO SPOT A MASTER MANIPULATOR

HOW TO SPOT A MASTER MANIPULATOR

Audio Version (10:11) We’ve all worked with difficult people. The colleague who takes credit for your work. The manager who changes the goalposts. The person who somehow leaves you feeling confused, wrong-footed, or even guilty after a perfectly reasonable...
WHY DO PEOPLE GOSSIP?

WHY DO PEOPLE GOSSIP?

Audio Version (08:39) Let’s be honest. Gossip gets a bad reputation. In most workplaces, it’s seen as unprofessional, toxic, or something people should just stop doing. You’ll hear phrases like “stay out of it” or “rise above it”, and yet… it still happens. Not just...
HOW BLAME CULTURES ARE CREATED AND MAINTAINED

HOW BLAME CULTURES ARE CREATED AND MAINTAINED

Audio Version (10:24) Blame culture is often discussed in workplaces, usually in the context of “we need to move away from it” or “we want a more open, learning culture.” But here’s the thing. Blame culture doesn’t just appear out of nowhere. It isn’t a policy issue,...
WHY PEOPLE BELITTLE OTHERS

WHY PEOPLE BELITTLE OTHERS

Audio Version (09:20) If you’ve ever walked away from a conversation feeling small, dismissed, or subtly put down, you’re not imagining it. Belittling behaviour shows up more often than people realise. It is not always loud or aggressive. Sometimes it comes disguised...