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Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) is an intense emotional response to the perceived possibility of rejection or criticism. This psychological phenomenon can significantly impact an individual’s daily life, relationships, and overall well-being. 

This week, we will delve into Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria, its symptoms, potential causes, and, most importantly, provide you with valuable tools to manage and cope with it effectively.

Understanding Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria


Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria is commonly associated with attention deficit hyperactivity disorder (ADHD). According to WebMD, 99% of people with ADHD have it. However, it can also affect individuals without ADHD. 

People with RSD often experience extreme emotional responses to situations that trigger feelings of rejection, such as disapproval, criticism, or perceived failure. 

These emotional responses can manifest as intense anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, anger, or a desire to withdraw from social interactions.

People with RSD will likely have grown up hearing that they are ‘too sensitive’ or ‘overly emotional’. They may not understand why they react so strongly to rejection or perceived rejection, and others don’t.

For my clients who suffer from a debilitating fear of criticism or rejection (especially if they have ADHD), it can be comforting just knowing that RSD is a ‘thing’. 

Over the last 12 months, I’ve worked with an ever-increasing number of neurodivergent clients both diagnosed and undiagnosed. So intend to write more on this topic in upcoming articles.

Symptoms of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria


The symptoms of RSD can vary from person to person, but some common indicators include:

  1. Hypervigilance: Constantly being on high alert for signs of rejection or criticism.
  2. Emotional volatility: Experiencing intense emotional reactions, often disproportionate to the situation.
  3. Fear of failure: Avoiding taking risks or trying new things due to the fear of rejection or failure.
  4. Negative self-image: Developing a strong sense of self-doubt and low self-esteem.
  5. Social withdrawal: Preferring isolation to avoid potential rejection.

Tools for Managing Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria


Although removing RSD entirely is unlikely, there are ways in which you can mitigate its impact:

  1. Self-awareness: Recognise and acknowledge your patterns of thought and emotional reactions. Understanding your triggers can help you take proactive steps to manage them effectively.
  2. Cognitive restructuring: Challenge negative thoughts and self-critical beliefs. Replace them with more balanced and realistic perspectives. Practice self-compassion and remind yourself that not all criticism or rejection is a reflection of your worth.
  3. Mindfulness and relaxation techniques: Engage in mindfulness practices such as deep breathing, meditation, or yoga. These techniques can help you stay grounded in the present moment and reduce anxiety associated with rejection.
  4. Effective communication: Improve your communication skills to express your emotions and needs in a constructive manner. Learning how to articulate your thoughts and concerns can help alleviate the fear of rejection in social interactions.
  5. Seek support: Connect with a trusted friend, family member, or therapist who can provide emotional support and guidance. Sharing your experiences and feelings with someone who understands can be immensely comforting and helpful in managing RSD.
  6. Positive self-care: Prioritise self-care activities that bring you joy and relaxation. Engage in hobbies, exercise regularly, practice good sleep hygiene, and maintain a healthy lifestyle. Taking care of yourself holistically can contribute to improved emotional well-being.
  7. Professional help: If your symptoms of Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria significantly impact your daily life and relationships, consider seeking professional help. The right coach or mental health professional can provide you with personalised strategies and support tailored to your specific needs.



Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria can be a challenging experience, but with the right tools and support, it is possible to manage and overcome its impact on your life. 

By developing self-awareness, practising self-compassion, and utilising effective coping mechanisms, you can navigate the emotional rollercoaster of RSD and lead a more fulfilling life. 

Remember, you are not defined by rejection or criticism, and there are people who care and understand your struggles.

What Next?


If you found this article useful, I recommend reading/listening to my follow-up post, The Brain and Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria.

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