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THE ‘I’LL BE HAPPY WHEN…’ TRAP

THE ‘I’LL BE HAPPY WHEN…’ TRAP

So many of us live our lives waiting to be happy, often without even realising it.  I often hear variations on, ‘I’ll be happy when…’ I get married/divorced I get a new job I get a new partner My kids go to university I have a child/I have another child This project...
HOW TO HACK YOUR HAPPY HORMONES

HOW TO HACK YOUR HAPPY HORMONES

When we undertake certain activities, we release specific combinations of neurochemicals.  All of these chemicals have a purpose. As well as the ones we emit when we are stressed (cortisol and adrenaline – responsible for our flight, fight, freeze response), we...
HOW TO OVERCOME SELF-SABOTAGE

HOW TO OVERCOME SELF-SABOTAGE

In my previous post, I talked about why we self-sabotage.  If you haven’t seen it yet, you can read it here.  To summarise, our brains were designed with one primary focus; to keep us alive long enough to procreate.  That’s the fundamental purpose of our...
HOW TO OVERCOME THE GUILT OF SELF-CARE

HOW TO OVERCOME THE GUILT OF SELF-CARE

Unfortunately, so many people do feel guilty for taking time out for themselves. However, it’s a false economy. We’ve all heard the saying, ‘You can’t drink from an empty cup’, and it’s so true.  When I ask clients who are near burnout, what amount of time they take...