THE ‘I’LL BE HAPPY WHEN…’ TRAP

THE ‘I’LL BE HAPPY WHEN…’ TRAP

So many of us live our lives waiting to be happy, often without even realising it.  I often hear variations on, ‘I’ll be happy when…’ I get married/divorced I get a new job I get a new partner My kids go to university I have a child/I have another child This project...
3 WAYS TO COMBAT WINTER BLUES

3 WAYS TO COMBAT WINTER BLUES

Apparently, yesterday was ‘Blue Monday’.  The day when, typically, many of us are at our lowest ebb, given that Christmas and New Year celebrations are well and truly over, and we are back to the routine, without even an inkling that Spring is on its way. I have to be...
3 WAYS TO COMBAT EXCESSIVE WORRY

3 WAYS TO COMBAT EXCESSIVE WORRY

  For many people, excessive worry is a part of their everyday lives; so much so, that I frequently hear, ‘I worry if I have nothing to worry about!’. Why do we worry?   The majority of excessive worriers learn this behaviour as a child.  Typically they have...
HOW TO OVERCOME THE GUILT OF SELF-CARE

HOW TO OVERCOME THE GUILT OF SELF-CARE

Unfortunately, so many people do feel guilty for taking time out for themselves. However, it’s a false economy. We’ve all heard the saying, ‘You can’t drink from an empty cup’, and it’s so true.  When I ask clients who are near burnout, what amount of time they take...